3 | 6
What 3s look for in a relationship: Social suitability, competence, admirability, attractiveness.
What gets in the way: Insisting on career and social status before the relationship. Manipulates by charming others and by adopting whatever image will work.
What 6s look for in a relationship: Communication, listening, acceptance, emotional honesty
What gets in the way: Commitment, dependability, shared values, solidity.
Self-doubt and reactivity: vacillating between need for closeness and need for distance. Manipulates by complaining and by testing others’ commitment to them.







